Goodbye to a Dear Friend
This isn’t exactly photography related, but I must say good-bye to a dear friend that I was lucky to have with me for over 10 years. On Thursday, October 25, 2007, we had to make the difficult decision to put down Buffy, our 10 1/2 year old Jack Russell terrier. Buffy was the family’s best friend, and also one of my favorite photography subjects over the past 10 years.
Buffy was a very unique dog, if for nothing else that she was deaf. That small handicap didn’t stop her from leading a full life though. She was loving, loyal, mischievous, and always, ALWAYS full of energy right up until the end. Once we figured out her handicap as a pup, she quickly learned to respond to hand signals so we could communicate with her. She loved to run around the yard, chase rabbits, and at the end of the day she would snuggle up next to my wife or my daugther on the couch…truly part of our family. She was with us even before my daughter was born, quickly taking over the role of protector when our daugther came home from the hospital.
Unfortunately, a week ago she became very ill. For no apparent reason at all, she became lethargic, refused food and water, and was only walking around very slowly. The vet attempted to treat her, first with antibiotics thinking it was an inner ear infection, then with corticosteroids to try and stimulate her. Her condition gradually worsened over the course of 6 days, and I couldn’t bear to see her suffer anymore. On the last day I came home from work, she couldn’t take more than a few steps without falling over, and shaking violently. I knew it was time to say goodbye. The vet confirmed this, telling me if she didn’t improve with the medicine he gave her, it was probably something on her brain, and that more tests or medication would most likely only prolong her suffering for a short while.
The last week was the most difficult in my 36 years. But at least I know we did what we could, and I know her pain has ended. I will always miss you, Buffy, and I’ll never, ever forget you. asdfasdfasdf


